Better MAN

I DON'T want to be a BETTER man...

I think I really need a PA... who wants to be? =P The person just need to know how to manage a blog and keep reminding me to update it... HAHA(I know I know, I barely update =P).. but I got soooooo much to tell... =)

Anyone likes 'Better man' by Robbie Williams? Personally, I like the melody of the song. =)

Ok, here it goes... I was playing this song and thoughts just came into my mind. Why be a BETTER man? Many people will think that why this StevenC DON'T want to be a BETTER man? What? So means he wanna be a BAT (BAD) man?

err... Batman?

Answer is NO, neither BAT nor BAD.... but I want to be a MAN of GOD!!!

yes... that's it!

What is better anyway? Like HOW is better? Guys... what is better for you? Ladies... what do you think a BETTER man should be like?

The world demands tremendous expectation for a better person or the BEST person... Thinking of it... who is the BEST person that come across your mind right now? and why are they the BEST person? [I apologize for my many questions, but give them a go =) ]


Here are my opinions...

Everyone is born unique, even identical twins... God made each and everyone of us unique... I bet many of you all heard of this statement gazillion times... but hold on, I'm talking about better man... what am I trying to say now? Unique cant be better now? Yes, definitely you can, by being who you called to be!

I believe God wants the very best of us and I just know the ONLY way to be better... Is to walk closer with Him and to be more like Him... Many men strive to be the better man that the world demands and sadly, often they lose themselves... Why not be the one He called you to be? We are all made in the image of God and before we trying to be better or the best, we ALREADY are!

Those are the thoughts that struck me when I was playing 'Better man' with the guitar... Well, not like I will banned this song but in fact, I still love this song.. haha! ~~~ "Send someone to love me...."

To those who don't know God, I pray that you ALL will have a relationship with Him, Jesus Christ. If you think that this post is a RELIGIOUS post, you are SO WRONG! Many people think that having a religion will make a person better (isn't that why so many parents want their kids to go church, or have some religions so that they can be 'better'?). But I can tell you, those ppl still striving to be what the world thinks is better/best... Being IN a relationship with Jesus gives you so much MORE than that... you DO NOT need to strive to be the best/better because you are "fearfully and wonderfully made" and He sees you as THE BEST, His masterpiece!

Psalm 139: 14 "I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made......" (NIV)

To those Christian, how's your walk with Him? I pray that my post today will help you.. think about it... and do drop some thoughts of you in the comment box...

1 Peter 1:15-16 "But just as He who called you is holy, so be holy in all you do; for it is written: "Be holy, because I AM HOLY." (NIV)


Guys, so you want to be a better man now or man of GOD?

Ladies, who will be your CHOICE?

God bless =)

Freshie.. Maybe not

Guess what?

I'm sooo new to this whole blog thingy... Even I have been blogging for more than a year? (Maybe not.. I mean I created this blog more than a year =P)... Like what others saying that is NoOb... O.o

I don't know how to add chat box in my blog... I don't really know how to change the layout I want for my blog (beside those offered in the template.).... I don't know how to link ppl in my blog...

All I knew is to create new post... post pictures... change font.. the size... change colours of font... leave comments... er.... what else? I guess that all =/

So.........


Any kind-hearted/generous/helpful/bored ppl here? ;-P

and yeah.. I need YOUR help!!!!! Puhleeaaaassseeee....


Much appreciated from yours truly... =)

So many things on me... I m suffocating!!! Help!!!

1st Anniversary...

No... it's not what you think if you're thinking about the anniversary of my marriage (I don't have one yet), my relationships, any special events/day or what so ever.


and Yes! It's the 1st Anniversary of NOT-updating-my-BLOG! Who celebrate that anyway?
Well... I do.. =P


O Hello blog!

Hello bloggers!

Hello my faithful readers!

and Hello world!

Before I go on....
How many of you have ever experienced the following?:-

1. Clicking on the link to my blog over and over again to check if I'd updated

2. Ponder if I'm still alive

3. Wonder over my life?

4. Have the urge/hope/faith for me to update...

5. Don't care =/


I'm pretty sure some of you all that "happened" to read this post are those who experienced point no. 1 ( and yeah.. that's including me =P). Therefore, I would wanna grab this opportunity to give my deepest gratitude to you all. Thanks for visiting my blog, thanks for reading it, and thanks for the encouragement.

I got pretty good responses from my previous entry which is the one on 'LOVE'. and... it's still impacts many during the one year of me NOT updating... Which I felt encouraged because my post is helping some of you all out there. =)

During this one year, of course there are many ups and downs in my life. To be frank, I'm enjoy the next half of the year now. This is because weather is getting warmer and activities are popping up one by one, week by week, day by day. The funny thing is I always meet more new friends during this semester.. and a lot of happening stuff going on ever since.

The REASON I update my blog today is not just merely celebrating the 1st year anniversary but also I feel something is more than just updating ANOTHER blogs. I don't know what seasons are you in now but hey... can I assure you the brighter days are coming? Some of you might face some difficult obstacles, hopeless situations, ASSIGNMENTS due!!!, exams, affairs but ALL of those will surely come to a past my friends! Hold on there and know that there's someone out there helping you!

To be honest, always update a blog which only with happiness, joy, fun, and encouragement doesn't seems to be helpful at times. Some may even get annoyed or jealous of this someone's life that is only full of fun but not theirs. But I seriously pray that I will update a blog which will give even a lil' glimpse of hope to the hopeless. I'm human too and of course I have some stage of life where I'm down but I'll never forgets those who help me trough it and yeah... I want to help you too!


So my family, my friends, those yet-to-be friends and whoever who read this post,

remember you got a friend that's me who is doing life with you,

and yes... you're not alone!

Always believe that there're brighter and greater days ahead of you!


Life is full of surprises you may never know!

I take this 15 mins of mine just to tell you all... I'm doing well here in Sydney. and trust me, you'll be so fine too!


Well.. enough of me posting many many words... let's do some pictures! =)

In case of emergency, JUST JUMP! ;-P


Save the world! =D


Somewhere out there...


If you squints hard, there are places in the world attached at the branch beside the table.
How I wish one day I will be sitting there with the someONE to plan the journey of ours around the world.. =)

-The world is aint as ugly as u thought, you're just getting lost in the BEAUTY of it!-


Till we meet again, be blessed!!! =)