Yeah! I'm back!! HaHa... Interesting title? yeah of course... everytime I blog I will make sure it gonna be an interesting one... Since it's been a long time again that I hardly update my blog... Some of my friends even asked me to close down... but the answer is NO! Reason being is I blog not to write a 'diary' here but to leave some thoughts and ideas to ENCOURAGE ppl who need them! SO to those of you who are reading this... feel lucky =P
So here it is... Since I hardly update my blog and it seems 'dead' but actually it's still alive! It just been living SILENTLY and PEACEFULLY... =P Well... The reason I decided to blog is because something really make me move and I just feel I have to share this with you guys... Just came back from basketball and it's really feels soooo nice playing in cool weather... It's just warm my body up so I won't feel cold anymore( duhhh..) Just like LOVE..... LOVE is something that has to move... something that will make you feel WARM....
LOVE LOVE LOVE.... well there're sooo many things to talk about LOVE LOVE LOVE... Maybe some of you are in the season of LOVE and some are not... but undeniable, LOVE still happens around us... I have spend so much time building the relationship with my friends here to the point that sometimes I just don't have time for myself... But it's all worth it.... Anyway... I realised that I've been running the race very very fast and now it's the time for me to have a break.... and think of the purpose in life... 'Selah' =)
Everyone always find the answer for LOVE... even the world try to define LOVE in various ways... remember the popular song 'where is the LOVE'? HaHa... But what the world teaches us sometimes is not true... I'm one of them that have been searching for this answer quite a while... but God is reviewing more and more truth about LOVE to me... I finally come to a conclusion for myself( yeah.. myself) LOVE is God.... John 3:16 For God so LOVE the world....... It clearly shows that the reason we are here... the reason we are living... it's because He LOVE us and created us in His image! (note we are created in God's image) therefore... we learn to LOVE... because God already LOVE us before even we're born... Wow... this sounds soo 'holy' for those of you who're non-Christian hey? But I tell you what... God is unexplainable unless you 'taste' it yourself...
Come back to LOVE.... something just stir the inside of my heart up... I began to love like how God love me... that He bless me so well all this while... I was having a break from everyone I know last Saturday in Darling Harbour... it was so good but! being alone too long is not good! (you will start to think more and more nonsense) I was observing the ppl around me... What I can see in them is nothing but LOVE... there're couples around, families having fun time, friends playing around with each other.... and some lonely ppl sitting at the side of the Darling Harbour just like me... but I wasn't lonely at all... =) I think most of you all agree with me that LOVE is just so powerful that it can transform someone's life just like that... Some ppl cant live without a boyfriend/girlfriend... some ppl cant live without friends... some ppl cant live without family... Well... my point is.... LOVE is just so powerful... U agree?
Family~~~
Although many times I having great time with my friends, building good relationship but yet I still always cry in my heart.. Why??? Because I can do so much more for my friends but how about my family? Family is more important than friends... Friends come in and out but family ill remain the same FOREVER in my life... I can see so many of my friends' life been saved but yet my family members are far away from me... So you guys better appreciate your family! Not that I don't.. Just that not enough... =)
Friends~~~
AT the moment, FRIENDS play an important role in my life now.... they shape my life and make me who I am.... It's good to see my friends grow with me.... Some lifes have become better which I sincerely cheer for them and some lifes have turn bad which I always cry for them in my heart.... I will always try my best to lift up my friends around me... therefore I took a break from my race and is there to support you guys... My race is not a sprint but a marathon (Thx K.Lo)... won't be complete without you guys... SO c'mon my fellow mates! Run till finish the race! Run like you gonna win the race! =)
BGR (Boy Girl Relationship)~~~
Yeah.. this's very interesting topic among the youngster and young adult... Many hearts are broken because of this... I heard a quote before that's quite impressive saying 'Don't put your lover name in the heart because heart break... but put in a ring because circle will go round and round'
Come to think of that... It's quite true! Ring means commitments!! Means marriage... Some of us are in the midst of trying out the taste of being in LOVE and that's the influences from the world we're living now... Well... Let's talk about me now(it's my blog.. means my stories!! haha) *cough cough* confession time... I have never have a girlfriend before (means there's no first love for me)... yeah.. I know I sounds inoccent.. in fact I'm... =P Honestly, sometimes I do feel desperate like every other singles on this earth do (yeah... you singles don't deny that!!) but I still never start a relationship before... Why? Not because I'm not attractive enough or I'm too coward to start one but it's because I know the consequenses... Proudly to say as a Christian now... I'm assured that there will be a woman suitable for me in the future... I've learn so much about women and I've decide to LOVE the only woman that has been given to me and to ONLY love her until the last breath of my live... Eventhough I have a lot of female friends around me but I will only LOVE ONE and the ONLY ONE... (sound romatic huh? Some of you might think: Steven is probably one of the guys that fall in love and was blind and therefore could tell all this 'romantic' nonsense) but I tell you what... I'm not in a BGR now and that's to my future potential WIFE ( noted is wife not gf) Yeah... I dare to say it out loud here and all of you readers will be my witness... That's why I have not started a relationship... because I reckon my first love gonna be my wife in the future... I don't wanna LOVE so many woman... I just wanna love the ONLY chosen ONE... Why am I telling all this things in here? To promote myself? Desperation? Finding for wife? Haha.. none of the above... Is because I wanna be a living testimony to everyone of youand to show that God has His way for us to live a successful life... I reckon all the guys should have the mindset for only one... Be a MAN! stop hearting so many innocent souls... I m tired of listening the stories around my friends about their relationship and I always pray that they will find the truth, the way and the life...
There're so many things to learn in our lives but our lives is just SHORT....
Lets think about the purpose of your life... have a break... not too long but just nice...
Lets just appreciate now for what we have in our hand...
For Christian, a verse from the bible for you guys... 1 Corinthians 16: 14 Do everything in LOVE
Because LOVE is greater than everything else...
For non-Christian, hope that you will find the truth and the purpose of your life one day... as I pray
Because God LOVE us so much... and He wants you to know Him personally....
Don't be afraid my friends... you all will never be alone as long as I'm alive.... =)
Phew... feel so released now.... all the things that come out from the deep of my heart....
Until we meet again.... Take Care and God Bless...
Cheers!!!
15 comments:
hey man..very meaningful..tnx for your thoughts and d insights..haha..yala..ppl like us still no gf..but i can relate to the loneliness that you feel..i feel it almost everyday n everytime i see couples on d lrt, bus or anywhere..but tnx for ur post..it has inspired me..;)
Yea! Preach it man! XD Seriously, very nice 1 =) Reminded & encouraged me to hold on to my convictions.
Blog-hopping. =) Caleb linked you in one of his posts so thought I'd just hop by.
Just wanted to share something that came up in my mind when I read the part where you said God is love.
You know that famous verse about love? 1 Corinthians 13.
My friend once brought to my attention that since God is love, if you substitute 'God' for every 'love' in the verse, so instead of "Love is patient, love is kind,.." you get "God is patient, God is kind,..." you'll get a whole list of God's qualities.
Just wanted to share. =)
hey i wana add on.. jz in case u find ur ONLY ONE, or u're hesitating whether is she ur ONLY ONE frm God, u can use "her" name and substitute with the word "LOVE" in 1 Corinthians 13..
example:
love is patient - steven is patient
see if she has all de qualities of a Christian wife.. if yes, good for u. If not, u guys needa grow.. =)
When I read the BGR part,it was as though u had read the books by Joshua Harris-I Kissed Dating Goodbye & BoyMeetsGirl (notice they are in singular) ...hehe but if you have not, I recommend u to read it,those are Christian love books-will help u view 'love in BGR' the Christian way,gives many ideas and many profound insights too,u will agree with all that is written in the books ...XD gbu!
wahhh!!! very meaningful huh?! thx 4 posting such a blog tht sends much meaningful msg~~ i agree v u so much!!! keep ur 1st LOVE....it might be better...actually nowadays there no longer a guy lik u....u wan ur 1st LOVE 2b ur future wife..hahax!!
keep holding on!!! take carez! =P
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amen to that=)
i reckon 'fit to be tied' by bill hybels is the BEST book to read about relationship. its a must read.
and BLOG!
impressive post =)
love is wonderful. what will this world be like if love doesnt exist? even the tiniest creature on earth love its youngs... wat more to say abt human beings.
sometimes i just dont understand how cud someone ever deliberately hurt their loved ones...
update! i believe ur readers have been waiting for ur new posts for quite some time...
yeah i think so too..it's a year since u last posted..
yeaa...i think we have d similar perception towards BGR... 1st= last, bf=husband harhahra.. hope that u'll be able to find ur miss.right
WOW~thts a really impressive lesson for me^^ I nvr thought about "lOVE" could hv such deep meaning and ur attitude of "love" was encouraged me a lot~~sometimes, I felt jealous when i saw most of my SH friends has got BF& GF...but ur insight let me know that it is worth to wait patiently bcuz God love us so much and he will give us the soulmate which is d 1st and also the last one.Bless all d friends I know and who knows me could find our own LOVER finally and LOVE God together under his LOVE~Amen
You are awesome..So happy to understand what you have thought.. Feel is worth to secret crush on you for almost 7years..Admire you so much.. Wish happy always with your current "wife"..^^.. God is always with you..=)
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